Toy Meets World
You don't have to be in 50 Shades of Grey to enjoy some fun experimenting in the bedroom! Sex toys add a healthy and new dimension to the relationship and make a bond between partners stronger.
1. Spice up your Life
Let's face it, we already have enough routines in our lives. Why add another? Foreplay and then intercourse. There are only so many different positions you can try, in different orders. Chances are, you have your favorites, so you do those every time. We're all tired from work, so trying new, harder, positions doesn't always happen. Toys help change that foreplay (if any), missionary, then doggy-style, routine!
2. More Orgasms
It's actually a scientific fact that vibrators enhance sexual satisfaction. It has been found that 75 percent of women can't reach orgasm through penetrative sex and almost 50 percent have faked their orgasms at least once. According to Stacy Rybchin, sex toy expert and founder of My Secret Luxury, "If you use sex toys, your chances of reaching an orgasm increase dramatically. Most women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm. That's why sex toys, vibrators especially, are an excellent way to help you climax".
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3. Less Pressure
Some men may feel inadequate when sex toys are used in the bedroom. Relationship expert and author April Masini says that the mentality should be to feel less pressure off of them to perform and that this can definitely enhance the relationship.
4. Intimacy Benefits
In this day and age of Instagram Models, women are hating their bodies every time they pick up their phone. Rybchin said that this can cause intimacy issues. "Using sex toys during mutual masturbation or sex can reduce the anxiety of being naked and help create more intimacy."
5. Openness and Communication
Sex expert Dr. Kat Van Kirk believes that incorporating toys in bed can boost the relationship and sexual satisfaction. "In the context of sex toys, there will be more positive communication- partners who feel threatened can open up about their concerns, feel heard and validated, and receive reassurance from their partners that a desire to use a sex toy is in no way a comment on their virility, desirability, or sexual ability. Likewise, the partner who desires to use a sex toy should be able to communicate that desire without being judged, shamed, or otherwise pulled away from." Toys that you thought you'd never try, a partner might introduce to you.
There must be a reason why the Sex Toy Industry has quietly turned into a multi-billion dollar business, find out!